Have you ever felt like your mom was in the room when you spoke? Walked by a mirror and caught a glimpse of her. Chilling you to your core because you have worked so hard to not be her.
Know matter what kind of a mother you grew with and ended up wounded, but not ruined. This book “Mothers Who Can’t Love” , authored by two ladies Donna Frazier Glynn & Susan Forward, Can help. It touches on the mother who worked hard to keep up appearences and even harder to make sure you did the same. Alcholic, drug addicted, bully, over emmeshed in your life, even the narrrsasitic mom. All these and more are covered in this book. It offers real life situations showing how she empacted your growing and effected you not only then but now as well. Including the flip side with examples of how mom reacted to guarantee you get both sides. Solidifying clarity on which mother you had.
Once you have completed this and know the mother you had they move you on to helping you understand how to break this cycle. Giving you your own life not your moms. Giving tips on how to find a therapist that best fits to help your needs. Continuing by offering you exercises to help you build confidence for when those difficult conversations about boundaries take place. You will close this book having a clearer understanding why your mom couldn’t love you . Teaching you that her actions had nothing to do with how amazing you were and are. Showing you it was her childhood demons she brought into your relationship.
This book makes it easier to forgive. Leaving you with a base realization that you are in control of who you become.
Amazon has it in Hardcover for $21.81 & Paperback for $10.79
Walmart – $17.99
I purchased this book from Kindle for $12.99