Here’s a little sneak peak at part of the first chapter. IT’S IN THE RAISIN
From the time you entered this world you were surrounded by influences. You had a specific enviroment and culture you were brought up with. You had adults and peers with beliefs and values you learned to mimick and they became learned traits. Well before you even knew you were deciding, you were forming who you would be as an adult. Why is this important? This is important because parents are people who came from their own set of parents with demons. These tend to get passed down from generation to generation. If its all you know then its what you will do. You wouldn’t have any way to know that its not healthy because it is all you have known. As you get older and broaden your social and educational life and start to see and began to feel you might need to change a few things. Making changes is natrual and is in no way dissrespectfull to your elders. On the contrary it is one of the best gifts you can give yourself and those around you. As you grew up you learned how to “be”. You were molded. When you were growing up if you felt heard, loved, validated and encouraged to voice your opinon. Knowing it was taken into consideration when you did. Had guidance but were allowed room to makie your own decisions/mistakes you probably have a decent self of value. You probably are a Person Pleaser, You put self first and share if you have anything left. M any parents didn’t have the skills to know how to emotionaly raise children. Not feeling loved, validated, imporant/included, knew to be seen and not heard makes you an adult who has issues handling conflict and adult decisions. This type of youth leaves little to no self confidence. Leaving you feeling as if you have little to no value. You teach people how to treat you and the choices you make depend on how you percieve yourself. These are People Pleasers. You will use every bit of your energy and time to make sure everyone around you is happy. Ensuring you won’t be because you have no time for you. However you have the ability to change your boundaries and become a Person Pleaser and put you above everything and everyone else. As we make our way out in the world and educate ourselves eventually our soul give us that uneasy feeling when we know a change is needed. Staying in one place causess one to become stagnant. Stagnant is not good for anything. It’s being stuck. Life has to be lived and you must evolve and adapt as you enjoy the ride. Remeber if it doesn’t make you a little anxious you probably need a more challenging goal. Let go of all fear/doubt and listen to your soul. Trust in your higher power and believe in yourself as you move forward, This is where you start to recieive your blessings.
Proverbs 3: 5-6
5) Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.
6) In all your ways submit to him and he will maie your paths straight.
Follow the commands of God and be obediant and wiith good cheer when you do. The biggest obstacle to recieving all the blessings God has prepared for you is to lose your doubts and fears and trust the process.
98 DAYS IN THE TRANSITION WITH MOM
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