It’s been a minute since i have felt these keys under my finger tips. Fourty days to be exact. Everything is still different. We have still haven’t completely found our new way but we did find our purpouse. If you are breathing you have a purpouse. That doesn’t mean you won’t have times the load will feel like more than you can carry. Nine days into our new beggining at moms, due to breathing complications, mom was granted a three day hospital. I’m sure the invasion of her home has not helped her anxiety. Which surely isn’t helping her health. Suprisingly she came home exhillerated and excited to go down memory lane (declutter the house). Maybe a little to much. Wasn’t long she was back again, worse than first time. Five days this time. She is home. Proud to say still encouraged by our journey but going a little slower. God / The Universe whatever your beliefs, there is no coincedinces in life. It’s clear why we ended up in a situation that led us here. A positive is all the extra excitement has kept my mind free from worrying about anything else. I am still taking it one breath at a time. The climb to this next chapter won’t be void of pain and discomfort for any of us. If we can work through it the excitement for whats to come will help keep pushing us forward. As always pulling positive energy from every source we know.

Anytime change is present, patience, kindness, honesty, compromise & empathy(from all parties). Do daily personal check ins. Make sure first and foremost you are the most imperative item on your agenda. Transitioning, things lining up, moving to yourn next chapter. Whatever you refer to it as

What do you do when a challenge comes your way? When the storm causes struggle? Everything you knew is no more and your not sure about the right now. That itty, bitty moment that allows doubt to sneak in. Doubt brings fear and fear manifests itself through anger/frustration. Usually reserved for our closest loved ones. The ones we know will understand and forgive us. Many things in life bring challenges, not just change. Most of the time the biggest ones come when we feel we can take no more.
DON’T RETR

If you woke up there is a purpouse for you. Something that needs you to have completion. We aren’t supposed

to know what lays ahead. It would cause to much tredpadation. We are supposed to trust God has given us a

good plan, even when we fall off course and fudge it up. To find your purpouse you have to stay focused on the

things that keep your soul at peace and keep you challenged so you will always grow. That’s what keeps us lively

instead of just living. Some would say most just exsist instead of live. A very small percentage REALLY live. They are

the ones that don’t allow the word negative in their vocabulary. When you follow this you will find your purpouse.

It might be a career change, a loved one leaving, moving ( you or someone else. Possiblly something completely new.

Each opportunity allows the chance to learn new things about yourself and others. Go into these adventures with

excitement of what’s to come, where it will take you and for how long.

71 Days in transitioning with mom

Love, laughter and inner peace are things you deserve. They are essential to a happy life. You are worthy just as anybody else is. Where we are physically and mentally dictates choices we make. For some things it has to be. Your surroundings provide limitations at times and of course you conform. Humans life comfort. Most people conform quickly to their enviroment. But if you can change the way you think about it and teach yourself that you don’t react to where you are. Instead make your choices based on who you are and what you must do to stay there. Then where your at will have no play in your choices. You can do you anyhwhere. Doing you eventually reveals your purpouse for that time. Don’t take the importance of this for granted. As simple as it sounds it isn’t difficult to do but can be harder than you would think to continue it daily. It will take patience and practice. We love comfort and stear clear of fear and anything we see burdensome. Some purpouses are for a time and some are for a season. All are equally relevant to who you are and who you will become. If you can’t find belief and desire for you how could anyone else. Evolve, enjoy it, it’s a good thing. Go with it and stay true to yourself.

70 Days in transitioning with mom

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When change blesses you to cohabitate with a person. Maybe a loved one, friend. Possibly a younger adult. Whomever, it is hard to see or go through struggle. A setback is difficult in general, whether its you or someone else. Your normal first instinct (especially if you are avoiding working on you) as a human is to help or shoulld i say try to fix the situation for them. So you will feel better. You read that correct. All your actions are for you. They benefit you in some way yes. They also raise your anxiety. Your soul can not be settled if you are constantly fixing problems making it impossible for you to feel peaceful. You surround yourself with termoil and devastation then termoil and devastation alonhative mode. Causing it to be nearly impossible to experience happiness for any extended amount of time. Being a helpmate is different than taking over so you can stop worrying. It’s like an addiction. FIrst you do small things. Your feel good energy that boosts that prideful feeling talks to those endorphins. Next thing you know without you this person could not survive if not but for you. Fact is they can and your “help” is only hindering them. Making them feel like you don’t have faith in them. Maybe they don’t need as much as you do to feel satysfied. In Gods time they will find their place. Not in our time frame and terms. You never know but your not supposed to. Being an accesible to help is positive. Loosing who you are and focusing on everything but you, not so much.

1st Rule: Check yourself often

2nd Rule: Remind yourself everyone won’t be happy all the time. That includes you

3rd Rule: Compromise. Don’t think of it as not getting what you wanted. Think of it as being half way happy.

4th and final rule: Remind yourself daily expressing your concerns is acceptable. Helping someone occasionaly or for a season is fine. You never know when you may need someones help. But controlling the situation however is not.

There is going to be many times in your life where change will bring chaos. Your world will be turned upside down and rearranging will be required. When you will need to settle your soul. Spark your fire and restart your flame. You must recenter & reset. Remind yourself who you are and where you’re going. Meditation and Prayer are helpful tools to allow you to manuever your new space. Relish in your feelings and let them over power tne negative. Watch yourself shine.

Repetition creates routine. Attitude creates the atmosphere around you. It’s vitally important you remind yourself of this daily. If you can stay positive. Keep focus of your vision on your goals. Do the work to find the people and places that can educate and help you get there. This way no matter whats surounding you at any given moment, you will always be able to come back to center. That strong foundation to gt your bearings until you regain routine again. If you feel you are on the right path, stick with it. Console with your higher power and listen to your soul. b

What do you do when a challenge comes your way? When the storm causes struggle? Everything you knew is no more and your not sure about the right now. That itty, bitty moment that allows doubt to sneak in. Doubt brings fear and fear manifests itself through anger/frustration. Usually reserved for our closest loved ones. The ones we know will understand and forgive us. Many things in life bring challenges, not just change. Most of the time the biggest ones come when we feel we can take no more.
DON’T RETREAT! Stand strong and firm. Especially when you’re not feeling it. Those are the ones that make the biggest difference as to where our life path goes. Listen to your inner voice, you’re intuition. Stop worrying and just focus on enjoying and celebrating your blessings. While your at it go ahead and celebrate blessings you are anticipating. Acting as if you have already recieved them. What you think, speak, put energy to you will bring forth. Instead of worrying and putting positive energy out by being excited and release that energy. Trust the process of the plan to the point you won’t worry. You must be honest with yourself and know what you are seeking. Start with asking What do you have you want to keep in your life, What you have in your life you need to remove, Who you want to be and what you want it to be like. Working on you is never waisted time and shows always gives a good example.

Change requires something foreign of you. Different than normal. Humans crave the peace of consistency and comfort. Change is in no way that and then a lot more. Change causes strife in your veins. Pushing you to doubt yourself. We strive for normalcy because our cozy is in what we know. We don’t like the unknown. Websters definition of change :

1) To become different

That three word statement would bring the strongest of self esteem to have anxiety and fear to shoot up at warp speed.

2) To undergo transformation, transition or substitution

As exciting as transforming and transitioning sounds I think we all would agree there’s not one part of that which sounds pleasing. Do able but not enjoyable to start.

Change will never feel comftorable. But if you can keep a positive attitude ane outlook. Truly trust the process. Work through the pain / anxiety, fear, and doubts the plateaus you can experience are unfathomable. Why not pick happiness when the alternative is to be physicaly and mentaly depleted.
According to http://www.webmd.com > mental health: Major life changes are automatically viewed by our brains as negativity. The pull is difficult enough to manuever and needs no help. http://www.verywellmind.com-how to get better dealing with change states “Change, whether it’s positive or negative, can create stress that affects both your physical and mental well being”. Known to cause not only anxiety, depression/sadness, but headaches as well. You cohtrol your thoughts. Your thoughts create your outlook. Your outlook is the key to your happiness. Even with my positivity, i still continue to have days i struggle. Doubts and fears creep in. It takes every ounce of energy to not give it time or value. We have kept our routine as normal as possible. Continuing to work towards our new way. God has already revealed reasons this change is taking place. We will continue to embrace all this brings. Sharing the experience with you along the way.

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